People Pleasing

If there is something I use to worry about but don’t anymore, it is people pleasing…

I was always the good girl who never wanted confrontation. I was obedient in school and at home…I cared so much about others’ opinion of me that I do not remember how I ended up being such a people pleaser…

Years down the line I learnt,those who love you will love you at no cost…those who dislike you will dislike  you even without knowing you.

The devil has followers and those who like his evil  nature and the Holy Christ has enemies and people hated him to a point of crucification inspite of His good deeds…so who am I to be loved by all and sundry?!

This understanding set me free in ways I can never explain. I am a good human being  but whether someone likes me or not that is in their heart and mind  not mine.

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